Hello-Maybe-Goodbye : A Negotiator Helps us Solve Relationship Issues in a Week
Los Angeles, CA, January 23rd, 2018. Relationships will always have challenges; how you handle them will determine your fate. Steven Riznyk, author of Relationships 901, and well known for high-level negotiations in the business world, has applied his concepts to relationship; they allow you to find your peace in a week or less using his model.
All relationships, he states, be they business or personal, have a Hello, Maybe, and Goodbye potential. The space between the Hello, when you meet someone, and Goodbye, when the other person can take no more, is defined by your negotiating skills. It is in this stretch, the*maybe, that you will discover your strengths or your weaknesses, and they, in turn, will define your level of happiness in the future. The job we all have is to stretch out the maybe period. Within the relationship, there will be many occasions in which both parties will disagree on things. They key to success, is to keep the relationship at the maybe stage&the other party is willing to listen and you have the opportunity of convincing him or her of your position. When the maybe phase ends, everything is over. Nothing you will say or do will make a difference.
Relationships are composed in great part of negotiations. When you meet someone new, it is hello. There are no preconceived notions of who the person is or what to expect from them, for the most part. On the other side of the equation is the Goodbye, where the person has decided that no matter what you say or do, they are not interested in being with you or hearing from you.
Understanding the concepts of negotiations, the art of communication, and the foundations on human behavior will help you stretch that maybe stage for a lifetime. At the end of the day, looks will fade, finances will change, and passion will fade. Great negotiation skills, on the other hand, will help you overcome all of the challenges life throws your way and will allow you to enjoy that person you are with not only to the fullest, but for the longest possible time. To put it another way, as Samuel Grafton did, A penny will hide the biggest star in the Universe if you hold it close enough to your eye. Likewise, your partner will overlook your biggest flaws if you are close enough to their heart.
Steven Riznyk authored Relationships 901 after two and a half years of research and interviewing 2,500 individuals, couples, and threesomes. He applied his conflict resolution model to 43 relationship issues any one of us can be faced with. His 6-hour streamable video program is divided into 20-minute segments so anyone can learn these concepts very rapidly and put them to instant use. The program is boosted with the help of 20 improv actors and a number of scenes where the viewer will observe the problem as it sits, and then an alternative way of handling the same situation, but with positive results. Relationships 901 covers issues ranging from alcoholism to situations where someone wants to just be friends. We tried to cover as many issues as we could, states Mr Riznyk, but there is no end to how much we can learn in this area, he states. At that moment in time when negotiations skills really count, there is no time to look something up, and emotions are usually not stable. It is at this time, he states, that you need to know what to do, in a split instant, and under the worst of circumstances. Learn as much as you can, he states, because in 3 minutes you can undo what took 3 years to build; go forth and educate yourself!
Additionally, at least 50% of the profits from the $69 program (relationships901.com) will fund a non-profit that pays veterinary bills for abused dogs, Steven Riznyks passion.